by Royce Bell
Upon hearing the news of the death of one who had been the scourge of David’s life
following the death of Saul, David said of Abner, “Know ye not that there is a prince and a great man fallen this day
in Israel?” (2 Samuel 3:38). If David could use these words to describe the man who had done so much damage to
David, even as Abner worked to further the interests of Saul, how much more true would these words be, when spoken on the
occasion of the death of one who was as beloved as Tom Jones?
I first met Tom Jones several years ago, when
Lee and I came to San Bernardino to work with the Mountain View church. At the time, Tom was the very picture of good
health, although I realize he was struggling with some health issues, even that far back. He was a big man with a big
heart. His smile was genuine and his handshake was that of a real man, confident in his bearing and congenial in every
respect.
Several specific memories occur as I write this short note, but one of the most vivid is of the
time Tom came to me and shared his vision for the church. Among the matters on his agenda was a deep-seated determination
to upgrade our facility. He felt, at the very core of his being—and with considerable experience as a businessman—that
we need a building which is more appropriate to our needs and with easier access by the members who were driving in on the
freeways.
It is no wonder he felt this way, since his wife, Margaret (and her sister, Geneva Wolf), had
roots that went deep into the history of this church. I have no doubt that, had Tom Jones enjoyed good health in the
last years of his life, we might well be on our way to even greater things. Tom was truly a man who influenced by the power
of his life and evident interest in the cause of the Lord. Tom was good man and decent. He was kind and gentle, devoted
and worthy. I hope to see him again, when God calls all of us to His presence.
Graveside services will be
held on Wednesday, December 31, at Mountain View Cemetery. Tom’s sons-in-law, Dave Orman and Randy Swaim, Ph.D.
will officiate. We ask the blessings of the Lord on Margaret and her entire family, in their grief.
What a wonderful gathering of loved ones and friends! Brethren in Christ and neighbors alike gathered to mark the passing
of a man who could truly be called a prince of a man.
Tom's sons-in-law by marriage, Dave Orman (of
Prescott AZ) and Randy Swaim (of Colorado Springs CO) did excellent jobs in recounting the life and lasting influence
of Tom.
While he would have probably been a bit embarrassed by all the attention, I'd like to think
he would have approved of us talking about some things this world needs to hear about and experience for itself.